There's something that's been bugging me for a while.. I'd always seen what's best in people, never really disliked someone unless they had done something directly offending me. Period. I mean I'd managed to get along with all freaky types of people, thgeeleen damm, sa5efeen, arrogants...etc and I never found anything wrong with them, kaifhum, '3ba2hum lnafsuhum :p
now that I started actually disliking people for any of their unpleasant traits ;p it's become .. wrong?
y3ny I'd admit that I don't like this girl, and it turns out that I'm wrong, that I should like her!! and I feel terrible for not liking her cause she didn't do anything to me.. so what if she's a show-off? does that mean I should be judging enough and not like her for who she is?
okay.. I bet you're all lost now, but I DO have a point!!
madry kaif.. I guess when I started doing it I did it all wrong!! I've become this shallow kind of person elli 7atta ma a3ref whom not to like.
There's this thing also, I've learned that no matter what people tell you about wearing your heart on your sleeves and whatever, you shouldn't. If you got hurt by someone, don't tell! If someone offended you, say unintentionally, just shut up and get over it. Confrontation is the worst thing that could happen, it leaves a permanent scar and it either crushes you or makes you the one who gets easily hurt and people will avoid talking to you about everything and you'll feel like some kind of a plague.
Saturday, June 28, 2008
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you do have a point..!
the first part was good.. and i agree with you
but the second part.. i think it depends on the situation.. sometimes you do confront coz you care!!.. i mean coz you don't want people to get you wrong.. especially if you were misjudged!!.. but still mostly i agree with you
gettin misjudged is rarely happened.. and beside i always believe that whoever wellin to judge based on nothin.. or wrong info.. and didn't bother to make sure that the info was right.. ain't worth my thinkin nor time.. and definitely not my heart!! :D
exactly! you're so right!
SO TRUEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE:-D
so true and i thought i'm the only one who is suffering.
It's your own right to like or dislike a person, and don't let anyone tell you other than that.
Yeah, it's good to have a widely open heart that contains everybody. But it's also healthy to dislike some of the people's features.
As for the second part, it depends on the experience, but anyhow.. it must be difficult to explain your real feelings without being ready for the harsh reaction. So it's like a gambling game, you might do yourself a favor by applying what you've said.. shutting your feelings and words.. and start dealing with it yourself.
Hayfa,
you're right.. thanks :)
it's like you're in my head! pinkish i totally agree with you..
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